7.17.2009

READ IF YOU WANT...

First of all....WHY THE FUCK did I refresh my Blogger.com page & see like 15 post IN A ROW about Rihanna & her new hair? That's why the fuck I should stop blogging. The fuck is goin on. Yeah, celebs must rule most of everyone's world because they don't talk about shit else. Smh. ANYWAY!

I am proud to say that I have a loving family. I wish I spent more time with some of them. I wish that they got along better with each other. I wish it didn't take a troubled time like having my grandma in the hospital to make me type all of this.

My grandma is in the hospital. I don't want sympathy, nor am I looking for someone to feel bad for the situation. I do however want to stress the face that I am going through it right now. I don't really know what's going to happen. I don't really know what is wrong with her. I do know that my world is upside down & I am thankful for everyone who has said any kind words to me during this time. THANK YOU.

I found out that I am a beneficiary power of attorney for my grandmother. What does that mean? That means I can override any decisions that my family member think they are going to make about her. That means my Aunt should STOP trying to sign papers at the hospital because it's not her business, and that means that if my grandma passes away & we live in her house- AINT NOBODY GETTIN SHIT FROM UP UNDER MY FAM. Simple as that.

2 comments.:

achoiceofweapons said...

Go with the strength that your Grandma gave you. She must understand what problems the family are encountering and is wise enough to know you will handle it.
Jaycee

Jas. said...

wow, this is crazy, cause I'm going through something so similar right now, except my Gramps crazy soon to be ex wife is trying to be involed now and it annoys me to no end cause she sho nuff wasn't around when my grandpa was in the hospital...sorry for the rant i needed to let that out
(I am happy to say he is getting better) and I pray that your grandmother will get well also

power of attorney is a huge deal. that means your grandmother trusts you enough basically over her own kids...
I pray your family won't be a hinderance in any decision you choose to make.

and no i don't like rihanna's hair...lol

be encouraged :)