12.16.2009

IT'S NOT WEAK.

So many times people associate negative feelings with weakness. Jealousy, envy, sadness, and anger. These emotions have negative connotations connected with them, but are they really as negative as we make them out to be?

What about love? Negative things don't happen when "love is in the air"? People don't get hurt and brokenhearted when they love someone? I dunno how some of you work, but I feel that being hurt and feeling down are negative feelings that we despise. Doesn't that make us weak in a sense too?

Some people have a hard time showing their emotions and other people don't realize that. I wish more people would be open to aspects of people like I am.

Having emotions doesn't make you weak. Having the outlook to say your emotions are weak, is weak.

I have been having a really hard last few days. Yesterday was my birthday, and ill do a seperate post on that, but it sucked for the most part. I know off tops, people who know me on Twitter are gonna try and say its because of the whole Chris Brown not tweeting me thing. That added to the rainstorm, but was not the initial issue. I don't want to play the pity party role, but my family is having hard times. I know the people who don't understand are gonna be like "yeah, everyone is havin hard times", but they really don't know the situation. I won't go into detail about it because its personal, but I have told a few close people to me.
Anyways, I think I'm rambling. This is the first time I'm gonna be posting via blackberry. My friend skip gave me this idea. :)

3 comments.:

bebie said...

Aww hun. sorry you're having a bad time, and yes everyone is having a hard time, but that doesn't make your situation any less significant. Hope things get better for you. God bless :)

♪ ♪ Fř£Sh pŘîNÇëSš™ said...

thats really true wat u said at the beginning
how certain words are automatically negatively connotated, but then LOVE (which is supposed tp be good) can hurt as well
interesting post!

Chicky Love! said...

i'm sorry your birthday wasn't great hunnie, i wish it was better, and i wish things where better with you all around too.
i love you.